It’s easy to think that if you could just find “THE ONE” that you will be complete. But if finding a spouse is more important to you than pursuing GOD, then you’ve got it backwards. GOD is everything you need, He always will be.
Philippians 4:19 And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.
When you find your spouse, it’s because that person is God’s provision for you. God has put them in your life because He entrusts them to you to love and cherish for the rest of your life. A spouse can’t give you spiritual peace and overwhelming joy that God can. It is not possible for a human to meet all of your needs. And thinking a spouse will make you happy is a trap, trusting God and His wisdom and His timing is the only thing that will give you more than momentary happiness. God designed you to need HIM, everything you will ever need is in Christ. When you are overflowing with Christ’s love and mercy then you can pour it into others and especially your spouse!